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Tips on how to believe in yourself, first it to stop the habit of complaint. That’s a side of unhappiness. Stop complaining: see that you are better than you think you are.

You must stop thinking about your liabilities. You are only human; everyone has liabilities. Think of your compassion, your courage, you will to succeed.

You must stop distrusting yourself. If you don’t believe yourself, why anyone else believe in you.

You must stop ridiculing your own weakness. You are not perfect it is true but if we were perfect anyway, chances are nobody would like to know you. You’d make other people feel inferior. You must keep battling those negative forces inside in you. You must keep fighting for breathing space. Don’t let the forces of unhappiness trap you. You’re a free man-a free woman! Don’t give up your freedom. God gave you life on this earth not to be unhappy. God gave you life so you could fulfill your purpose, so that you could affirm your individuality, so that you could assert your identity. Not so you could fall into the quicksand of unhappiness, living centuries of frustration, endless days of misery. God made us with purpose.

Last February 13, it was the Chinese new year, according some Chinese expert of astrology the Chinese New year had 12 animals in astrology and have corresponding named after them. This year,  is the “Year of the  tiger”  and the cycles of this will repeat in every 12 years. Firecrackers are common we saw at  time of Chinese New Year,  associated with stemming from an ancient Chinese legend. These legends tell us the story of foul –smelling giant who lived in the western side of a village. If someone made the giant angry, he would inflict malaria on them. One of the villagers suggested that they might scare the giant, if they created a great deal of noise. So the people of the village made a huge pill of bamboo stem and set them on fire. As the stems burned they explode and frighten the giant badly, he run away and never returned again. So next time you see a fire crackers on Chinese New year, you can assure that no foul smelling giant nearby.

What is the origin and meaning of Valentines Day? In A.D. 270 the emperor Claudius 11 decided that married men made poor soldier because they did not want to leave their families to go war. So he issued a proclamation forbidding marriage. As a result, lovers secretly went to Valentine a Christian bishop, who would marry them. When the emperor heard about this, he brought the bishop before him and attempted to convert him to roman paganism. Valentine in turn unwisely tried to covert Claudius to Christianity and was sentence to death for his imprudence. While in prison, Valentine fell in love with the blind daughter of the jailer. He left her a farewell love note and sign it “ Your Valentine” and he was executed on February 14, some years later the catholic church proclaim him a saint. So we celebrate Saint Valentine’s Day, on February 14 dedicated the day of lovers.

Tips on how to develop an effective image.

1.Fist shows a genuine interest in others. An ” I couldn’t care less’ attitude repels people. You need people to project charm.

2.Be enthusiastic at all times. People love to be around an enthusiastic person. Look alive, be alive to life and people will swarm around you.

3.Move with confidence and a sense of purpose. Don’t slouch, look awkward or give a sad sack impression. Eliminate unnecessary gestures. To attract top level people act like one. Look as though you have a purpose inline and you know where you are going. Speak, walk and cat with confidence.

4.Dress immaturely, not outlandishly. Hair and fingernails should always be neat and clean.

5.An effective self-image demands that you be a cultured person. Take the time to become acquainted with proper etiquette, music, theater, art, literature and etc.

6.Project a natural personality be warm, friendly, compassionate, enthusiastic, charming etc. personality also includes integrity, wisdom, love, kindness. It excludes insincerity, false modesty, undue flattery and dishonesty

7.Be poised have control over your emotion. Relax take every thing in stride. Know what you are saying and doing. What you say and do must be right, logical and coherent.

8.Listen to yourself when you speak. Is your voice too high pitched? Do you mumble? Is your grammar correct? Do you slur words? Cultivate a well-modulated voice that is not affected. Alter the pitch and make yourself sound more mature by speaking in lower register.

Hangover’s, it say are caused not by alcohol itself but by non-alcohol ingredients called congeners, which give the favor and aroma different drinks. If you are in hangover situations here are some simple tips to cure it.

1. Drink a glass or two of cold water when you awake. It can’t do any harm and at least you’ll give all those congeners something to think about.
2. Aspirin taken with water, not dangerous, but not desirable. A couple of aspirin may help relieve the hangover eventually.
3. Black coffee, hot and sweet this will certainly disguise that foul furry taste on your tongue but only temporarily.
4. The real cure, strongly recommend take a juice of one lemon or orange and a generous honey. It’s the vitamin C of the lemon and the fruit sugar fructose of the honey, which do the trick by hastening the rate at which your body breaks up those congeners.

My life so bored today maybe, stress is always there where ever we go or even at home we can encounter stress. Sometimes when I’m in stage of stress I divert my mind of some good things that happened in my life and change my lifestyle. Maybe stress is a part of our life to help us to grow, mold us to become what we are right now or teach us how to handle it in a calm way. First thing I do if ever I’m in stress, I’ll start my day, especially if my day off by doing something that will help me to relax and put me in a great mood. Like involved into activities like playing basketball, watching movies with my wife or visit my parents at the province. Don’t let personal problem stand in your way of the things that you have done today. You have to put effort into where you see yourself heading in the future. Let go and move forward. Don’t let what other say or do bother you so much, it will only slow you down. You have to look beyond, be original and ignore what’s going on around you.

Pizza as we know it today would not have been possible if old world Europeans had not overcome a basic fear of a new world fruit native to Peru and Ecuador. This yellow or red fruit I’m talking about eventually called tomato was though to be poisonous. It wasn’t until the late 600s that Europeans began eating tomatoes. In Spain, tomatoes were still considered poisonous until the middle of the eighteen-century. Modern pizza was born in 1889 when a tavern was asked to prepare a special dish in honor of the English queen visit to Naples. He created a pizza with ingredients that presented the red, white, and green colors of the Italian flag: tomatoes, mozzarella, cheese and basil.